Remember when you were a kid and you asked your friends:
If you had 3 wishes, what would you wish for?
There was always one annoying friend who said: I'd wish for infinite wishes!
That friend was actually pretty smart... Why go for one thing when you can have unlimited access to it all?
The cool thing is that inside of you is an energetic magnet, it's either attracting stuff or repelling it. If you can get this magnet to grow in its attractive ability, this inner magnet can work like an infinite wish giver!
Sounds fantastical, but there is truth in what I am saying... Let me explain further...
People are drawn magnetically, unconsciously, to things that are loved and valued. Think of an object for sale in a shop... If it is neglected on a shelf at the back, growing dust and rust, the customers are not going to want to buy it - who would want that thing? They probably wouldn't even notice it in the first place. But what about the object at the front of the shop? In the window. It's polished, loved and admired by the shopkeeper everyday, placed in the perfect light and talked about with genuine pride. People are drawn to this object, they feel it's value, they will pay top dollar to own it
YOU can have the same pulling power with people, opportunities and abundance of all kinds... You just need to look after, value and treasure YOU. Polish and care for yourself, love and respect yourself, hold yourself with high regard - not in an egotistical way because that is just a mask for the real feelings of neediness and lack - but in a genuine, heart-felt, meaningful way.
This attention to yourself, this self-love, turns your inner magnet around so that is on ATTRACT, rather than REPEL. As you pour attention into you, as you fill up your cup, as you meet your needs, you become an attractive force and everyone wants you around! And you actually HAVE the energy and love to give to them!
You can tell when your magnet is set to REPEL because you feel you need something, you feel you are lacking something, you are reaching and grasping for someone or something. Even though your need may be justified, it's not productive, and it's not going to get you want you want because you are REPELLING!! As soon as you realise you are doing this, bring yourself back to looking after yourself instead.
There's nothing more powerful than going for your dreams alongside a deep commitment to self love. This is the magic recipe. Because self love fills your needs, and lack of need - fullness - attracts all the goodies to your door!
So are you attracting? Are you repelling?
If you are feeling good, chances are you are attracting. If you are feeling in need, feeling that you lack, you are repelling.
Here's what to do...
1. Turn off your phone and distance yourself from other distractions. Commit to taking some time for just YOU. Just YOU and YOU. You deserve, and need your own attention!
2. Sit with yourself and listen to yourself. What is the feeling? What is the pain? What is the need? Just listen as though you were listening to a friend, without judging yourself for feeling the way you do. How do you really feel? What do you really think? What do you actually need, deep down??
3. Now commit to giving this to yourself, whatever you need, actually follow through and you will get the heart-warming feeling of self love rushing through you. You'll be filling your own cup.
4. Do the previous 3 steps as often as you can!
As you care for the magnet inside of you, as you pour attention and care into yourself, rather than reaching out of yourself, you magnet will be on ATTRACT, and magic happens in this state, your infinite wishes centre is activated! Because you don't need so much, you experience having, and the possibilities are endless.
Susan Harrington-Baker is an International Inspirational Leader, Teacher and Intuitive from Christchurch, New Zealand.