Stop Complaining and Start Creating! A Process for Taking Your Power and Life Back...

Does this sound familiar....

Something happens or continues to happen in your life that you don't like. You feel a negative, heavy, stuck feeling due to this. You moan to one of your friends about it and your friend agrees that you are so hard done by and shares their own story of woe (which makes you feel bonded to them). You feel reinforced and supported in your viewpoint of victimhood. 
You go out into the world, in your victim frame of mind, and you attract to you more evidence of your victimhood - more things to complain about - and you say: "See, I told you I had such a hard life!"

The victim mentality is the most seductive, most elusive and most pervasive frame of mind us Earth beings get sucked into unconsciously again and again... Because it's really hard when it looks like things are happening TO us, and it's not our fault. When we are sure it is their behaviour that is causing the problem, not ours, why should we change?

It's ok to dwell in victim-hood. There's no judgement. But you have to agree that it's a pretty shitty feeling to live in isn't it? It sucks feeling so powerless! Even if you still do really believe it's not your fault and there's nothing you can do about it, eventually you are going to get sick of having that poor-me feeling lingering around you like a bad smell.

I'm here to help you if you are ready to feel better again, alive again, powerful again... If you are ready to move out of that stagnant dynamic you've been living in.

You see, the divine, beautiful, liberating truth is that: 

It doesn't actually matter what is happening outside of you...

You, yes you! Are endowed with the ability to profoundly command, direct and affect your circumstances through taking control of your inner state of being.

It is actually like magic! The surprising, and sometimes miraculous shifts that can take place on the outside once you make the decision to do this.

As I said in my last email... You truly can't control some things in your life, but you can control your reaction or response to them.

Only YOU are in charge of your inner world, no one else.

In ANY tricky, crappy, impossible situation... YOU have in-built power and freedom.


Are you ready to create rather than complain? If so, I've simplified a process into a few easy steps for you...

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CREATE RATHER THAN COMPLAIN...

1. First of all, recognise that you have slipped into victim mode (as seductive and 'real' as that reality may be!) How do you know you're in victim mode? Because you are complaining about something. Say to yourself, I'm sick of feeling like this! I'm now choosing to take charge of my Inner Universe. I believe that the Universe is flexible and adaptable and completely unlimited. I'm going to create what I DO want, rather than complain about what I don't want.
2. ​Ask yourself, what is the highest and best outcome to this situation? What do I want and need to happen here? Let yourself get inspired and dream big. Notice if doubts and limits pop up trying to tell you it can't happen, and just place them aside for now.
3. Then close your eyes and relax your body. Imagine yourself in a beautiful nature sanctuary and enjoy the feeling of being here for a few moments. (This will get you out of the thinking, busy brain) Then visualise clearly what you would LIKE to happen. Really feel it and get into it. Make precise pictures of things resolving, resources flowing to you, peaceful resolutions to conflict, the outcome you want presenting itself etc. Don't worry about whether what you are visualising is realistic, just get clear on what you want and visualise it and feel it in your body and emotions NOW, as though it's already here, it's already happened.
4. Do this little visualisation exercise everyday for as long as it takes for things to shift - it won't be that long if you really focus and go for it! Stick to it.
5. Follow any intuitive guidance, gut feelings, prompts from the Universe that you start getting and take action on them.
6. Be open, flexible and adaptable about how the resolution shows up... it may not come in a form that you expect!

I used this process to manifest a sum of money many years ago. In a seemingly hopeless situation, the money came, and the outcome I had been visualising came true.

There's a video about that here.