Does this sound familiar....
Something happens or continues to happen in your life that you don't like. You feel a negative, heavy, stuck feeling due to this. You moan to one of your friends about it and your friend agrees that you are so hard done by and shares their own story of woe (which makes you feel bonded to them). You feel reinforced and supported in your viewpoint of victimhood.
You go out into the world, in your victim frame of mind, and you attract to you more evidence of your victimhood - more things to complain about - and you say: "See, I told you I had such a hard life!"
The victim mentality is the most seductive, most elusive and most pervasive frame of mind us Earth beings get sucked into unconsciously again and again... Because it's really hard when it looks like things are happening TO us, and it's not our fault. When we are sure it is their behaviour that is causing the problem, not ours, why should we change?
It's ok to dwell in victim-hood. There's no judgement. But you have to agree that it's a pretty shitty feeling to live in isn't it? It sucks feeling so powerless! Even if you still do really believe it's not your fault and there's nothing you can do about it, eventually you are going to get sick of having that poor-me feeling lingering around you like a bad smell.
I'm here to help you if you are ready to feel better again, alive again, powerful again... If you are ready to move out of that stagnant dynamic you've been living in.
You see, the divine, beautiful, liberating truth is that:
It doesn't actually matter what is happening outside of you...
You, yes you! Are endowed with the ability to profoundly command, direct and affect your circumstances through taking control of your inner state of being.
It is actually like magic! The surprising, and sometimes miraculous shifts that can take place on the outside once you make the decision to do this.
As I said in my last email... You truly can't control some things in your life, but you can control your reaction or response to them.
Only YOU are in charge of your inner world, no one else.
In ANY tricky, crappy, impossible situation... YOU have in-built power and freedom.
Are you ready to create rather than complain? If so, I've simplified a process into a few easy steps for you...
CREATE RATHER THAN COMPLAIN...
I used this process to manifest a sum of money many years ago. In a seemingly hopeless situation, the money came, and the outcome I had been visualising came true.
There's a video about that here.
Susan Harrington-Baker is an International Inspirational Leader, Teacher and Intuitive from Christchurch, New Zealand.