In my last blog I explained how we all have an inner magnet which is either repelling people, opportunities and things, or irresistibly attracting them, just as magnets have a tangible force that repels or attracts.
We know when our magnet is repelling because we feel needy, incomplete, wanting something, reaching, grasping outside of ourselves, feeling not enough. And when our magnet is attracting, we are in the flow, we feel complete, and things just come our way without too much effort - we draw them in.
The key to shifting your magnet into attractive mode, where you become irresistible to people and opportunities, is in valuing yourself, and valuing your life and where you are at right now.
Have a look at this last blog to bring you up to speed...
In that blog I gave you a little exercise for setting your magnet to attract, and today I'm gifting you another tool for turning your magnet around.
This is so important because if you are in repel mode, it would take a ridiculous amount of pushing and trying and effort to force what you want to happen, and then it probably won't last because your magnet is repelling... It's so much easier to coax yourself into feeling better FIRST, to come into an attractive energy FIRST. Then what you want makes its way to you, finds you. You take action, but it's not a struggle.
How much better would your health, relationships and bank balance be if you could live like this! Without all that stress and strain!
So here's what I want you to do...
Whenever you notice that you are repelling - feeling needy or desperate for someone or something, feeling not enough, grasping for something outside of you STOP. Do not take any action from this place, don't make the call. Don't do it!
Instead, read over the list of affirmations below, do the visualisation that goes with them, personalise it to your own life... Read them over and over again, do it over and over again until you have moved out of that neediness and generated a feeling of fullness and radiant attractiveness inside of you.
NOW, what action would you take from THIS place? Whatever it is, go for it!
It's also great to do this exercise at the start of your day, to set your energy for the day. Once you get good at it, it will only take you a few minutes. I challenge you to start your day with it everyday for 2 weeks. Make it a non-negotiable MUST! Really put time and effort into it and see what amazing shifts, realisations and manifestations happen for you!
Remember... People, things. opportunities are not attracted to what you look like, what your bank balance is or what level of success you have attained... EVERYTHING is attracted to your energy. Pure and simple. So get that right and you get everything right.
This exercise is a golden ticket to good times. It's in your hands now...
The source of everything I need is not out there, it is within me
Inside of myself I have the potential and the power to feel and be anything I choose
It is true that I AM the source, it all starts with me
So I take this time now to give myself the attention that I need
Because I truly value myself and the quality of my life
I imagine that in the core of my body is an empty vessel
I am now going to fill that vessel with my own love and attention
I remember all the compliments that everyone has ever given me
I see and feel that adoration, warm and sweet, flowing into my inner vessel, starting to fill it with golden, radiant light
I remember all the things I've achieved in my life, and how far I have come
I see and feel that appreciation flowing into my inner vessel filling it more and more
I remember all the people and animals who love me
I see and feel that love pouring into my inner vessel, the golden light growing and growing in size and strength
I count all the abundance in my life right now, all the little things I have, no matter how small...
All the abundance that is available to me!... All the abundance that is out there in the world!... I'm so blessed... I'm so humbled by all that I have and all that I have access to
I see and feel that gratitude and wonder pouring into my inner vessel, the golden light getting really strong now, inner vessel nearly full
I count all the things I like and love about my life right now, the little things, the big things, the seemingly insignificant things
I see and feel that love flowing into my inner vessel, golden light so magnificent, glowing and pulsating outward
I feel my body, and think of all the ways it works for me, and all the positive things about it. My ability to see, to walk, to enjoy food, to make love, to smell flowers...
I see and feel that appreciation filling my inner vessel to bursting!
My inner vessel, the core of my being is now full and radiant... Brightly shining warm, healthy, magnetic, irresistable golden light in every direction around my body
I see this golden light within me, this feeling of fullness and gratitude now attracting to it everything that I want and need
All of my long cherished dreams are being effortlessly drawn to this inner magnetism and shine
I visualise them coming to me now
Everyone wants to love me, every opportunity finds me, beautiful things are attracted to me, and all I need do is sit in this place of inner-fullness
And enjoy it. For as long as I like
Susan Harrington-Baker is an International Inspirational Leader, Teacher and Intuitive from Christchurch, New Zealand.